Wednesday, November 27, 2013

life a different view...

Life is not a complicated...

I lived the beautiful days and hated the sad ones

that was my mistake. COZ both happy and the sad make it complementing.

bad things in life gave me lessons to learn, where as the good days gave me  moments to enjoy.
'But now i would love to cherish both.

the days aren't over where i walked in utter silence and in complete darkness. 
Those days help me reflect more about me

what i am, who i am is only important to me. not to anyone else.

i have been moulded separately.
the pain starts when i chose to be someone else than what i am.
i can be best in what I am

I gave it the best shot, regardless the situation.

Vanish away without being a pain to anyone

Make the other happy, coz the day you bring smile to someone is the most blessed day in your life.


Live it regardless the situation. Care the other. Do ot have them your heart taken away.

Love them, never expect eth love back.. coz it the most painful moment, not to have it back.. It tears you apart..

I have decided to LIVE.. live a life of Love, hiding the tears of mine.. wiping the tears of other.. The most beautiful one..

I am who i am, not more or less than that..

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

HUMAN ...

HUMAN

Humans can be deceiving. Recently, I observed someone who seemed very pious, generous, kind, and well-mannered. But as I got to know this person better, I was surprised to discover that they were actually an opportunist. I have nothing against this individual, but I was amazed at how quickly their behavior changed. I don’t want to single out any particular group, so I'll refer to this person as M.

M has always been a puzzle to me. They would praise even their enemies to get things done, but once the task was accomplished, M would move on without a second thought. They help people occasionally but expect a favor in return. M always wants to be a winner and gets upset quickly over trivial matters. Their preoccupation with the future seems to be a source of their tension. M used to have charisma and insisted on it, but it was surprising to see them change so dramatically. I never thought M would make such a transformation. Nonetheless, I wish M good luck. As a friend, that is the best I can do. God bless you, M. Please take care.

This experience has left me pondering human behavior. What is important to a person? Why would anyone make changes in their life that could drastically alter their path? Everyone has their comfort level and their desires. People often wonder about finding the best comfort zone where they can feel happy, safe, and secure. When things don’t turn out as expected, people might change their approach. I don’t want to place blame on anyone. Even I have these thoughts and may act accordingly. We often look for shortcuts to happiness that might provide quick relief but may not last. We rarely take the time to think about the lasting contentment that could bring deeper fulfillment.

Many are quick to change their paths to achieve goals, sometimes causing sadness or inconvenience to those close to them. Later, we might regret our actions, realizing that we’ve lost valuable relationships, perhaps irretrievably. We may have sacrificed a sacred relationship that could have brought us happiness and stood by us in times of need. What do we gain from such changes? Often, nothing but a mirage, a fleeting validation of our thought processes.

It’s surprising that despite numerous incidents like this, we often continue down the same path. What can I say? The human mind is so amazing, powerful, and capable, yet it is often underutilized. It is dynamic and energetic, but it can be squandered in the most careless ways.

One question for all: Are humans the most brilliant living beings on earth?